Sarah's Transition Diary .. weeks
321 - 324
Day 2241. Thursday 27th January 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.20 .. The alarm ..
16.15 .. It’s a late finish to the course .. I head for home via the
office .. to drop of my company stuff and collect my new laptop which
e-mails seem to indicate has been delivered ..
17.55 .. I’m in the office, yes my new laptop has arrived. There is
method in this .. if my new laptop was in the office waiting for me to
open it, it would be a distraction, and not only for me.
18.53 .. I’m home ..
After dinner I start to set up my new laptop .. I think it’s pretty
good .. but only time will tell ..
More to come ...
Day 2242. Friday 28th January 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.10 .. The alarm ..
From my FaceBook
account today ..
.. is back at work
after 2 days of hard learning, hard eating ( not looking forward to
weighing myself Saturday, even if I skipped dinner last night ) and
hard driving .. 243.6 mile round trip. Having my hair done tomorrow ..
then driving back to Evesham Sunday for the next 5 days of training and
eating .. it's a hard life .. somebody has to do it.
More to come ...
Day 2243. Saturday 29th January 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
It’s the Saturday morning weigh in .. 14st 13 3/4 lb .. Sob, sob .
19.45 .. Artur and Danuta arrive ..
20.45 .. I try to order a Chinese .. but can’t read Artur’s writing ..
I hand the phone to him ..
21.14 .. We are back with the food ..
21.45 .. Back to Artor’s computers ..
02.28 .. I finally climb into bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2244. Sunday 30th January 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
14.15 .. Lunch ..
14.35 .. I head upstairs to do my drudgery ..
14.55 .. I’m in that position ..
16.16 .. I finally leave the bedroom ..
16.35 .. Linda arrives to collect the set up disks for the computer she
collected earlier in the week ..
17.15 .. I head for the office to pick my colleagues up ..
17.59 .. I’m at the outer gate .. it works an “air lock” thing at
weekends so only one car can enter at a time through the massive outer
gates.
18.05 .. We are off .. I’m taking my boss Jon and trainee Tom down to
Evesham .. they’ll be driving back on Friday in a hire van ..
20.15 .. ish .. We arrive at the hotel .. a quick unload of car into
hotel rooms then off to the restaurant .. I’m in the “Catherine of
Aragon” room ..
As it turns out we can’t eat in the restaurant .. there’s a belated
Christmas party going on in there .. so we are shown into a smaller
room and offered a bar menu .. not the best way to start the
week.
22.40 .. ish .. Following a drink in the bar I’m back in my room ..
From my FaceBook
account today ..
.. is now in the
Salford Hall Hotel near Evesham, for a 5 day training course .. though
this hotel has an air of superiority about it, The Evesham Hotel we
stayed in last week, from first impressions was a warmer place to be as
it was family run .. first impressions of food here .. not as good as
last week .. advantage .. I won't eat so much !!! This weeks aim .. to
be under 15st next Saturday .. :-)
More to come ...
Day 2245. Monday 31st January 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.10 .. The alarm ..
06.25 .. Up and at it ..
07.37 .. I’m in the hotel restaurant for breakfast .. Full English ..
08.20 .. I’m back in my room and start watching last nights “Top Gear”
on BBC I-player ..
08.45 .. My mobile rings .. My colleagues are waiting .. I’m sure they
said 9.15 earlier ..
09.45 .. We follow our course manager to our main lecture room ..
12.50 .. We break for lunch and head for the canteen ..
17.15 .. Our course manager drags us off to Breedon Wing for tonights
lecture and practical on transportable satellite dishes .. we spend an
age in the freezing cold on a patio rigging a dish to use on Wednesday
.. Why wasn’t this done in the warm sun earlier ?
18.45 .. We finally leave BBC WoodNorton .. Peter and I are driven by
Rebecca .. I guide us to Rily’s, the Indian recommended by others last
week ..
19.00 .. ish .. After a slight detour we are in the restaurant ..
The food overall was pretty good and we had a good time ..
21.20 .. ish .. I pay the bill for all 8 of us and we head for the
hotel ..
21.36 .. I’m back in my hotel room ..
21.38 .. ish .. I call Karen ..
Video chat with Gillian in the USA ..
Chat on Yahoo with Kirsti .. There’s some personal stuff she confides
in me about relationships .. She has to follow her heart ..
From my FaceBook
account today ..
One day of
training and eating down, 4 to go .. the training I can take but the
eating opportunities will be the end of me. 45 minutes tonight, in the
dark, rigging a transportable uplink sat dish, it was ruddy cold and it
would have frozen my nuts off if I had any .. brrrrrrr. Then to Rily's
in town for a curry stuffing fest .. the food was good, tomorrow first
thing is find a dentist to have my mouth wired shut !!
23.48 .. I go get ready for bed ..
00.18 .. I climb into bed .. Nightie night.
More to come ...
Day 2246. Tuesday 1st February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
I really didn’t sleep well at all .. this bed is so hard ..
06.10 .. My alarm goes off but fails to wake me ..
The alarm must have gone off at least 3 more times before waking me up
..
06.48 .. The alarm wakes me up .. I look across to my laptop which is
in dim mode .. and notice the time .. hell .. I need to wash my hair ..
07.45 .. I’m in the restaurant for breakfast .. I do show restraint but
the cooked breakfast is a must ..
08.23 .. I head back to my room .. I pause at reception to ask if it’s
possible to move room .. but nobody is there and it’s getting late.
08.44 .. I climb into the back of Rebecca’s hire car ..
09.01 .. We are in the class V15 ..
09.58 .. I take a Pro Plus .. I’m struggling ..
10.50 .. Coffee break .. It’s a double expresso for me..
12.46 .. We head for the canteen again .. Today I have just 2 courses
.. Cottage pie and a slice of treacle tart and custard ..
I go for a walk with Rebecca to visit parts of the site now closed ..
Ashridge dormitory is wrecked in places, I’m told they’ve tried to use
it it as an old peoples home .. a couple of abandoned hospital type
beds are in reception there .. and a window is broken ..
We follow a path back sign posted to Bredon wing .. but after some
distance realise a high gate is locked .. so we back track. I spot a
stepped path down to the old “Wood Norton Hall” that in recent years
has been a hotel, now it’s closed. We walk around the side, I take
photo’s of the front .. and try to get back to where we should be. As
we walk down the side we are staggered at the beauty of the interior ..
then see a really bizaar sight.
What was, or is, a clearly very up market dinning room, prepared for
breakfast but abandoned. The tables are ready, blister packs of jams on
the tables with neat napkins. A sign that the place is abandoned is
that all the silver table ware has gone terribly dull and oxidised ..
I’d read that it went bust 18 months ago .. such a shame.
13.54 .. After back tracking again we are back in the lecture room ..
I’m glowing profusely and my heart is really pounding .. that walk was
far too strenuous for me, barely a flat path anywhere. My chest hurts,
I wonder about using my GNT spray .. But I don’t.
14.45 .. Another coffee break, another double expresso.
17.32 .. Our lecturer, Peter, calls it a day .. It seems everyone
ones to eat now, I’d sooner have gone back to the hotel to freshen up
..
17.50 .. After a slight detour we arrive at The Fleece in Bretforton, a
few miles east of Evesham .. this was my idea .. but we are 10 minutes
early.
17.58 .. After waiting in the cars we go into the pub after the lights
came on ..
We get some drinks in, but the kitchen doesn’t open for another half
hour. We order some bread to share then order some food. I go for a
slow braised shoulder of pork .. It’s lovely, then follow that with a
ginger brulee .. which is fabulous.
The good food and roaring log fire made for a good atmosphere. The guys
who were into real ale appreciated the beer .. so I drove one of the
hire cars back so somebody could enjoy the beer.
20.55 .. I’m back in my room at the hotel .. desperate for the loo.
I dig out the laptop and make entries on my Facebook accounts.
21.25 .. I finally call Karen ..
21.41 .. I say goodnight to Karen, and sit and do some diary.
From my FaceBook
account today ..
Day 2 of my
" Satellites and DVB for **** " course completed, managed to eat a
little
less at breakfast, and only 2 courses for lunch and evening meal. I
dragged the mob down to the Fleece in Bretforton tonight, arrived
before they opened, but good food and roaring log fire made for a good
atmosphere. The chaps might mention the ale .. I drove one of the hire
cars back so somebody could enjoy the beer.
22.25 .. Time to get ready for bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2247. Wednesday 2nd February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.46 .. I wake with a start .. something has disturbed me .. I look
across to my PC .. arghhhh .. look at the time ..
07.45 .. I’m in the restaurant for breakfast ..
08.57 .. I walk into the classroom for the rest of our week .. B5 in
Bredon Wing ..
10.50 .. We stop for coffee .. a double espresso should keep me awake
..
12.45 .. ish .. We stop for lunch ..
Dinner in the “Thai Emerald” ..
I drive the hire car both ways ..
From my FaceBook
account today ..
Day 3 of my
" Satellites and DVB for **** " course completed, managed to eat a
little
less at breakfast, and only 2 courses for lunch but 3 for evening meal.
Tonight was a Thai in Evesham High Street .. food was OK, but they
didn't do iced Thai tea !!!! .. what !! I drove again, end of evening 3
of the others wanted to stay in town .. so getting taxi back. Cognac in
hotel bar ..
23.00 .. I suddenly realise I haven’t ordered the batteries for my
mother .. so I do some searching and find a supplier of Lucas medical
grade deep cycle batteries .. at a very good price ..
More to come ...
Day 2255. Thursday 10th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
I slept quite well till about 03.15 .. when I had a nightmare .. not
sure if it was the fact I went to bed knowing I was on call covering my
boss Jon that triggered it.
My phone was ringing .. I answered it and it was the voice of my last
“technical director” .. ranting at me in the style he did in front of
others last year for not answering my phone one night .. maybe I
listened to the call recording too much.
I wake with a start and seriously glowing .. my nighty is damp .. I
realise it was a bad dream, but I check my phone anyway .. it hasn’t
rung.
06.10 .. The alarm goes off .. it did wake me ..
06.30 .. I wake with a start .. and am soon out of bed ..
07.12 .. I’m back in the bedroom .. sorry Karen ..
08.09 .. I’m on the road to work .. but it’s another nightmare trip.
The A30 at Egham has a bigger cue than usual, and knowing that the M40
J1 / A40 junction will be stuffed due to the A40 roadworks ..
08.50 .. I head for M40 J2. This also isn’t good .. as I’m heading up
the M40 the delay indicator on the TomTom is ratcheting up quickly.
Once I get to the A40 roundabout it’s clear there is a problem towards
Beaconsfield.
09.13 .. I’m in the car park at work .. it really is half empty .. I
suspect many people have been caught up in the traffic.
09.16 .. ish .. I’m in the office to be greeted by Seb, he’d come up
the M40 this morning and had been stuffed by the traffic to.
09.20 .. My attention is drawn to a cake in the kitchen area .. baked
by Seb apparently .. it’s a carrot cake topped with a mascarpone cheese
topping, that Seb says has gone wrong. With a cup of tea it is
delicious. As I enjoy the tea and cake I do a quick shopping job for
home .. and order three 4gb USB data keys to replace the keys I have
lost with the MP3's for Violet. I get carried away by an offer for a
32Gb key for just £19.99 .. that is such a bargain !!! .. time
will tell.
Much of the morning is spent doing the daily and as this is the first
full week of the month I wade through some of those monthly tasks to.
11.04 .. I throw the main power breaker in our CTA, to check the UPS is
working properly and the diesel generator starts .. it’s long 5 minutes
between throwing the breaker, the UPS taking over and then the diesel
finally starting .. the vibration can be felt through the CTA floor
from 15 metres away.
I run the generator on load for 15 minutes then put the mains breaker
back in ..
11.50 .. The generator finally completes it’s cool down period and
shuts down ..
12.05 .. I head for Arqiva’s MCR to check our kit in there .. all looks
good.
David asks me if I’m really sure that I don’t want to be included in
the prize draw to win the trip to Berlize to do the uninstall in the
summer when our service closes there. I confirm that I don’t, as it’ll
be 10 days of dismantling and heaving around heavy equipment into
containers for shipping back to UK .. I’m not sure I’m strong enough ..
so it’s a draw for 5 then !!
Tracy does the draw for the Berlise trip helped by Chris from IT ..
Phil is the winner, with Seb as 1st reserve. I suggest to Phil that if
Seb delivers a cake to him a couple of days before the trip .. to worry
!! .. LOL.
12.40 .. I start my lunch time .. with my fruit. I’m just finishing my
banana when David, my other boss comes and asks if I know how to do the
weekly live recording known as Sitrep .. as a web site states ..
“Sitrep is the only place on radio where you'll find a comprehensive
look back at the week's most significant events in Defence.”
Sadly I’ve never had the chance to see this set up .. a ring around
starts trying to find staff who have done this.
12.52 .. As if he knew, Mark walks in saying “I’m not here” .. he’s on
leave this week, but he co created the rig that records Sitrep .. he
comes through to the News Studio to show us what goes where ..
13.15 .. We have a rig set up in the News Studio and everything seems
to be OK in Studio 2 where the recording is made.
14.00 .. The recording is finished, not without difficulties both
operationally and engineering wise .. but most of the engineering ones
are caused by operational error .. lucky I’d been watching over them ..
Dave arrives to help me derig the news studio and put things away.
14.20 .. I head down to town to complete my lunch .. that is collect my
shoes from the cobblers, while I’m down there I collect three 4 pint
bottles of milk from Budgens and invest some of our milk fund on some
cleaning materials .. a brush, a pack of ten foam scouring pads and
some “spontex” cloths.
15.03 .. Back in the office .. I need to make some notes on what we did
for Sitrep .. just to help me and others in the future ..
David calls me into the office
David asks if I can cover Jon again tonight as he’s off sick .. I agree.
17.37 .. I finally head for home .. but I run into traffic similar to
this mornings .. in fact it’s worse than this morning .. this is
nightmare traffic . .the new TomTom is showing delay queues all over my
normal route, yet it insists I’m on the fastest route .. hmmm.
18.55 .. I’m home .. phew.
Karen’s on the phone to her sister .. hmmm .. dinner is in the oven ..
recipe for something burnt.
19.18 .. Dinner is served .. a jacket potato, slightly over done due to
phone call .. with lamb and carrot curry left overs on one side .. and
cheese based stuffing on the other .. along with a small salad drizzled
with balsamic vinegar .. lovely. Dessert for me is half the 450g box of
cherries I bought last weekend .. lovely ..
19.50 .. I head to the PC .. to check my e-mails and do some diary ..
21.10 .. I go make a cup of tea .. then sit with Karen .. she’s wading
through a mountain of paperwork for Claire and the care home .. most of
which really doesn’t apply to Claire.
21.55 .. Time for bed said Zebedee .. but ..before I can shut the PC
down .. I want to install BBC Iplayer. While doing that Lucinda and
Kirsti pop up on Yahoo .. so while I chat I download the last Top Gear
to watch on I player ..
23.33 .. I head for bed ..
00.01 .. I finally climb into bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2256. Friday 11th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
I slept well ..
06.10 .. The alarm wakes me up .. I snuggle towards Karen ..
06.18 .. Karen heads for a comfort break, I roll over to check my phone
.. arghhh .. where is it .. I leap out of bed and go look for it .. I
can’t find it downstairs and head back to a now empty bathroom .. not
in there either .. I locate it in my jeans pocket near the bed .. phew
.. it hadn’t rung. I climb back into bed briefly ..
06.27 .. Up and at it ..
07.02 .. I’m in the bedroom ..
08.15 .. I’m in the car, a tad late .. lucky it’s Friday, so the
morning commute is easy .. the new TomTom is suggesting the M3 route
would be quicker this morning .. blow the extra 5 miles .. I head off
that way.
08.59 .. I’m in the car park at work .. it’s strangely quiet again ..
Well it’s a pretty routine day .. I do the daily checks and do some
other things.
Friday is the day we upload the next 9 days of EPG into the satellite
system .. the part I do works fine, but then I spot a problem with the
Arqiva upload .. the main machine takes an age .. the backup machine,
recently replaced .. is rocket fast.
Back in David’s office I check the EPG on his Pace box .. it’s not
looking good .. it only seems to have updated till Thursday, with a
little bit of Friday .. the listing I saw on our side of the Arqiva
divide was fine .. I go find Stuart and let him know ..
12.43 .. I start into my lunch .. PAB .. gosh the apple is sharp, “Pink
Ladies” are normally sweet and juicy .. << like me >> ..
lol .. this isn’t, but I consume it anyway.
12.56 .. I head down to the town to post my birthday card to Nanda in
Netherlands .. how much !! I overhear a conversation with another
customer, apparently 1st class domestic is going up from 41p to 46p in
April .. time to stock up on “1st” class stamps.
17.10 .. ish .. I check the EPG again .. still no change .. I try to
locate Stuart .. but fail, so I send him an e-mail .. we are safe off
air till at least Thursday night.
17.36 .. I walk out of the office .. the journey home, for a Friday
night, is easy compared to last night’s horror story ..
18.33 .. I’m home ..
19.08 .. Dinner is served .. chicken and onion in tomato and garlic
sauce with tagliatelle .. it’s really nice .. dessert is the other half
box of cherries left from yesterday ..
19.55 .. I go out and make tea as instructed ..
More to come ...
Day 2257. Saturday 12th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
08.29 .. I’m awake, and very dry .. I take a swig of water and snuggle
down.
08.43 .. Ok, I can’t sleep, I need the loo, time to get up.
Post comfort break I head for the kitchen, collecting the scales as I
do .. it’s the Saturday morning weigh in .. 14st 13lb .. that’s good to
see the scales have fixed themselves, must be an intermittent fault I
triggered last week .. << grimace >>.
I sort myself out breakfast wise and boot the PC ..
10.20 .. Karen heads out to go shopping with her sister .. hmmmm.
10.25 .. I need to shower and get on and do stuff for me ..
More to come ...
Day 2258. Sunday 13th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
16.28 .. I head up to the bathroom to prep for the drudgery ..
16.48 .. I’m in that position .. lets just say its going from bad to
worse at the moment .. the last 30 mins I try some static .. better
than nothing I am sure.
17.50 .. I have to give up .. I head for the bathroom ..
18.30 ..
More to come ...
Day 2259. Monday 14th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.10 .. The alarm goes off .. groan ..
09.04 .. I’m in the office, arriving with Tracy, only Phil seems to
have beaten us in ..
12.25 .. Lunch .. PAB .. followed by my walk down the road to the local
school .. I’m not sure of the distance .. maybe just over a mile there
and back ..
20.01 .. We are in Hynns .. the place appears to be very busy .. we are
shown through to a table at the far end of the restaurant .. however
half way there I realise I’m sans handbag .. I’d dropped it taking my
coat off and hadn’t realised immediately .. cause it’s so small and
light.
The restaurant is full of couples .. like us, well maybe not, there is
one table with about 7 mainly Chinese businessmen around it and one
with a Chinese family group of three .. the other 12-15 tables are
couples ..
After being seated on a larger table .. side by side, we move to a
smaller table facing each other .. love is ..
The evening is very pleasant, the staff know us and do engage us in
conversation while at the table ..
Towards the end of evening the staff are going around collecting
information from a few people that appear to be regulars, well those
where the staff have engaged people more freely like us. They want our
name and addresses so that they can inform us of special nights they do
.. like Chinese New Year like we’ve just missed ..
22.18 .. We head for home ..
More to come ...
Day 2260. Tuesday 15th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
08.13 .. I’m on the road ..
The A30 Egham bypass is beginning to give me serious headaches in the
morning, and the new TomTom’s “guestimates” of what it thinks are 6
minute queues here are a joke .. 18 minutes is the reality today
..
09.14 .. I’m in the office .. we are thin on the ground at the moment
..
I start my investigations into the cross talk problems in our “Listen
Again” service .. what I find is rather startling to say the least ..
the inputs of the sound cards have all ( I discover later ) been wired
wrong .. they’ve been wired “unbalanced”, where as the cards have
“balanced” inputs. This is bazaar ..
I have a window in which I can rewire the Gurkha service inputs then
see what happens ..
11.05 .. Following a news bulletin .. it’s a eureka moment .. the
Gurkha service has now disappeared from the news service .. so it
should be the same for everything else .. however the Gurkha service
gone .. I can now here twitterings of our Radio 2 service in the noise
.. but I can’t disturb those jacks, other than for short periods during
the news ..
12.00 .. I check a Radio 2 jack plug .. yep it’s wired wrong too. Paul
tells me I can have the inputs for as long as I want after
17.00.
12.20 .. Lunch .. PAB.
14.30 .. ish .. Geoff see’s Adam out .. shame to see him go ..
14.40 .. ish .. Geoff ushers me into his office .. instant panic. Given
Geoff’s morning job seems to have been “letting Adam go” you can
understand my worries. He tells me to sit and we start to chat .. he
asks how accepting I might be of a long term attachment to somewhere
like the Falkland Islands ..
Luckily it’s not immediately on the agender .. phew .. Geoff has been
following my real life Facebook account .. and thinks the way I do
things there is amusing .. well that is my aim .. and he said he
enjoyed my week of postings while doing the training course 2 weeks
ago. We talk about Claire and the impact of me being away from home on
trips for work.
When I took the job, Karen and I realised things would have to be
adapted when I went away .. as it did after 3 weeks when I flew off to
Canada !! I tell Geoff that attachments of a couple of months for major
projects wouldn’t be a problem. Being aware of who/what I am, he
appreciates that Central / Northern Africa would be dangerous for me.
He asks about Islamic countries, he wasn’t aware that in Iran gender
transition is supported by all parties.
14.50 .. ish .. I leave Geoff’s office with some relief .. LOL.
I check a few of the “refreshed” listen again tracks that have come off
the recording system in the last couple of hours .. << big grin
>> .. no more Gurkhas in the background .. result !!
16.55 .. I collect my bits up to head to our CTA to rewire the Radio 2
service sound card jacks as soon as the system stops at 17.00.
17.15 .. Job sorted .. I head back to my office, job done.
17.38 .. I leave the office ..
18.37 .. Post petrol stop I am home .. something I’ll have to do in
Sparkle tomorrow ..
18.58 .. ish .. Dinner is served .. various cold meats, salad and a
plain jacket potato .. dessert is a smaller portion of bio yoghurt,
some oat granola and some Honey ..
Dawn pops up for a type chat on Skype ..
Chats with Bambi and Kirsti on Yahoo
22.45 .. I’m about to go to bed, I check my “non TS” Facebook account
to see trainee Tom “chatting” with his mum firing messages at each
other .. I join in .. it ends up with an invite from his mum, “Lou”, to
all of us at work to continue the character building, which Tom says he
enjoys .. gosh he might just get what he wishes tomorrow.
23.05 .. I head for bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2261. Wednesday 16th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.10 .. The alarm ..
08.12 .. I’m on the road ..
08.26 .. I’m stuck on the A30 Egham Bypass .. when I eventually get to
beable to see into the roundabout I can see traffic isn’t going up The
Causeway into Staines .. it’s backing up and virtually blocking all
other routes ..
08.53 .. I’m finally through the roundabout ..
09.22 .. I’m in the office ..
12.41 .. Following my lunch I go out and do my 20 minute walk ..
14.00 .. ish .. I’m called in to David’s office with James .. to be
told I’m going to Brunei on a service trip with James last week in
March, first week in April ..
15.45 .. ish .. I give the company doctor a call to sort out the
required immunisations for Brunei .. so I’m not looking forward to the
jabs tomorrow .. was offered next week .. I wanna get them over and
done with .. I'm now wondering if I can slip a quick trip to Chonburi
for a service there too .. Brunei - Bangkok £154.
17.35 .. I head for home ..
19.55 .. I arrive at the pub in Theale ..
21.05 .. We finally start to get the food we ordered a good while ago
.. apparently there is a large group ( which I had observed ) from the
local police college .. so we are safe tonight .. maybe.
I’m sitting with Julie Anne and Letitia, plus one other whose name I
can never remember .. conversation is good. Letitia, who also does the
dining nights I arrange, suggests we use Blue Beckers in Chobham as the
next guest venue later this month .. I’m up for that .. just need to
get a few more involved with a little luck.
23.08 .. I head for home ..
23.34 .. I’m home .. and just in time, gosh I need the loo .. the
Theale meal strikes again !!!
01.02 .. I finally climb into bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2262. Thursday 17th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.10 .. The alarm ..
08.12 .. I’m on the road, I take the M3 route, but it wasn’t a good
idea ..
09.02 .. I’m in the office ..
I’m one nervous kitten today .. counting down the seconds till this
afternoon’s appointment. I busy myself to try and pass the time.
Having completed the daily checks, I bump into Mark near the newsroom
.. he’s feeding his face with a cake .. he points me in the right
direction .. “they are in there” .. comfort food .. just what the
doctor ordered .. well maybe not .. <<grins>>.
12.21 .. I tuck into my lunch .. PAB.
12.31 .. Following my lunch I go out and do my 20 minute walk .. it’s
colder than yesterday .. it’ll help burn some more time up.
15.08 .. I head out of the office .. heading for my appointment with Dr
Cheese at Stoke Poges, using the new TomTom to guide me.
15.30 .. I’m in the doctors carpark .. am I nervous .. yes if the
amount of thumbling I do trying to get the TomTom in it’s case.
I’m in the temporary waiting room .. it seems they are redoing the
interior of the small building. It’s a long wait .. I can here a couple
of voices talking to Dr Cheese in his room ..
15.47 .. The doctor invites me in .. finally .. we chat about where I
am going what he’s going to do for me .. basically he’s going to set me
up with the complete set of jabs that I’d need to have to go to any of
our corporations sites around the world .. he asks if I’m going to
Afghanistan in the near future .. I don’t know .. he didn’t say if
anything special is needed to go there.
I get three separate injections .. Hepatitis A, Typhoid and the first
of 4 doses of Hepatitis B, and three different plasters in a ring
around my arm. The doctor points me in the direction of his secretary
to make an appointment for next Thursday .. same time.
16.12 .. I leave the doctors .. I sit in the car for a few minutes ..
I’m not feeling good .. I store the Dr’s surgery car park GPS position
as a “favourite” .. NOT .. as it took me to the wrong place coming
here .. in a big circle around to the other end of the
street.
I put “work” destination into the TomTom and it takes me back .. on a
completely different route through Fulmer .. this is much nicer .. I’ll
have to remember to force the route next time if it takes me across the
A40 from Gerrards Cross instead of the left turn required.
16.35 .. I’m back in the office .. and I really don’t feel good .. a
cup of tea and a kit kat ..
16.50 .. I go help Mark test some studio kit .. it is faulty we prove,
but will need to book the studio out to get to it .. it’s a desk fault.
Mark, who is up to his ears in home improvements is keen to do all the
on call days he can aquire .. so I offer him next Thursday .. for two
reasons .. the jabs and it’s the guest venue night for my dining group
.. hopefully in Chobham this time.
17.21 .. I call Karen .. she’s worked out all her meetings with her
friends next week during half term .. she can fit me in Thursday ..
well thanks for nothing .. the one day I can’t do anything during the
day cause of my jabs on Thursday.
17.35 .. I leave the office ..
The M25 is hell again .. I’m starting to think bike again in the summer
when it’s dry .. I know I shouldn’t really.
18.38 .. I’m home .. I’m not feeling at all well, splitting headache
and arm ache, I’m starting to feel very chilly .. so Karen does some
soup to warm me up before the planned dinner. It’s goats cheese and
mushroom .. sounds odd but actually it’s delicious.
19.04 .. Dinner is served .. the first proper salad of the year I think
.. what no potatoes or pasta !! .. Dessert is yoghurt, oat granola and
some honey.
22.45 .. I’m in bed ..
23.20 .. The last time I looked at the clock .. Karen was still in the
bathroom ..
More to come ...
Day 2263. Friday 18th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
I really didn’t sleep well .. kept rolling on to left side and arm in
my sleep .. my preferred sleeping side ..
06.10 ..
08.13 .. I’m on the road .. the TomTom sends me the M3 way .. good call
..
08.52 .. I arrive at the barrier to get in the complex .. the car in
front hasn’t got his new pass card for the barrier .. DOH ..
08.55 .. I’m in the office .. I need a coffee to try and wake me up ..
this is going to be a hard day ..
I do the daily checks, but following an e-mail from Stuart I don’t do
the CASIS update .. we are having issues and getting a lot of calls
from many of the RFA ships .. who have lost our services all of a
sudden.
12.50 .. I start my lunch PAB ..
13.00 .. ish .. We get news that Stuart has sorted the encryption
problem we’ve been suffering with one type of decoder box only on the
RFA’s. It’s soon confirmed by a couple of ships that all is OK .. phew.
13.15 .. I head out for my walk .. not sure if this is a good idea
today .. I’m tired anyway and it’s a little chilly outside.
16.00 .. ish .. Stuart appears by my desk to tell me he’s done the
CASSIS run, but again the CASSIS 2 machine, which isn’t ours, it’s
owned and maintained by Arqiva just across the road from us, is broken
again .. so we are clinging on again. Glad I’m not on call this weekend
.. it’s my turn next week.
17.33 .. I leave the office ..
I’m heading home down the A412 when the TomTom offers me a faster route
.. I accept and 15 minutes disappears off of my ETA at home. Instead of
taking me the usual route onto the M40 and M25 .. it takes me down the
A412 to Slough, down through Datchet and Old Windsor .. brilliant move
!!
The route tried to bypass me around Egham, but I dive off the route and
head for the garage to fill up ready for tomorrow ..
I try several times to call Karen on the phone .. first the home phone
is busy, then her mobile is .. back to the home phone .. it rings till
the answer phone cuts in .. she’d know from caller display that it’s me
calling .. but she doesn’t pick up, her other call must be so important
.. I think I know where I sit in the pecking order of importance ..
somewhere below something stuck to her shoe ..
18.42 .. I’m in Waitrose .. I
19.10 .. I’m finally home ..
19.30 .. Dinner is served .. chicken and mushrooms in a cream and
pepper sauce with tagliatelle .. dessert comes in 2 parts .. a small
piece of chocolate cake with a little vanilla ice cream .. followed by
scrapping out the yoghurt pot with a little oat granola and maple
syrup.
20.50 .. A cup of tea and some chocolate ..
I spend too much time trying to sort out a CD ripping problem on the
main PC ..
00.25 .. I’m packing up when a post notification comes through from one
of my Facebook accounts .. from Christine in Whitby .. it’s brief ..
but worrying on the subject of her mum .. I must make time to get up
there to see her sooner or later .. she’s such a wonderful old lady who
really helped me 3 years ago while I was in Thailand, when your lonely
in Thailand, and English voice is so nice to hear .. especially hers.
01.00 .. DOH .. I finally climb into bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2264. Saturday 19th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
I’ve not slept well again .. it’s my natural inclination to sleep on my
left side .. not good at the moment ..
07.10 .. The alarm goes off .. groan ..
07.22 .. I roll over towards Karen and get a cuddle, my arm is still
aching .. I try to ignore the pain in my arm to receive this honour ..
07.34 .. Up and at it .. I need a pit stop .. then head down to do the
Saturday morning weigh in .. 14st 10 3/4lb .. I’m hoping this will
become a trend .. I intend to go for my lunchtime walks when ever it is
dry enough to do so.
07.40 .. ish .. I stick the new filters into the hoover so it’s ready
to use again after last weekends disaster .. four new filters later the
hoover is well and truly rejuvenated .. more suck than for a long time
.. I blame the old HEPA filter, I’ll have to try and change that more
often.
08.22 .. I’m clear of the bathroom for Karen .. I head down stairs and
sort the kitchen routine. Once finished, I hoover around the ground
floor ..
I dive into my e-mails on the main PC .. nothing really there but
there’s quite a long off line message on Yahoo messenger .. we need to
catch up ..
09.22 .. We are on the road .. I boot the laptop and rig my BT 3G card
so I can catch up on a few things .. but what ever I do I can’t get
anything through it ..
The TomTom predicts big delays on our route .. a few seconds before the
radio says the same .. so when the TomTom offers a route that saves 15
minutes we accept .. it takes us off the M25 at the M40 and we head
north west for the A43 probably ..
10.35 .. We leave the M40 .. heading up the A43 towards the M1 ..
thought so .. this is our back up route anyway.
11.04 .. We arrive at Northampton Services .. Claire and minders are
waiting, it’s raining so we can’t don’t hang around getting wet to chat
with Hazel, Claire’s and our favourite member of her staff.
Claire appears to be in a good mood .. phew ..
11.06 .. We are on the road for home .. gosh it’s miserable out there
..
We haven’t got very far down the M1 when Karen is wondering about the
fact Claire’s only got one bag today .. so she hands me her mobile to
call Hazel’s mobile ..
11.23 .. Karen dives off into the next service area, to check Claire’s
bag is complete with meds .. and go into the loo .. she brings back
some biscuits for us to nibble. While she is away Hazel calls back ..
11.32 .. Back on the road .. Claire makes it clear what she wants for
dinner tonight .. yes correct .. chicken pizza ..
11.42 .. The TomTom chirps up there is now 15 minutes of delay on our
route, but doesn’t offer a quicker route .. our arrival time is now “13
o’clock” .. she tells us.
12.14 .. We join the M25 .. ETA now 12.59 .. the good news is that it
looks like they’ve nearly finished the road works South bound between
J21 and J20, apart from some of the gantries and a little “landscaping”.
Glad we are not going the other way .. the queues now going clockwise
go for miles ..
12.38 .. We leave the M25 at J13 just as a queue is forming on the M25
anticlockwise .. what’s going on today .. last few weekends have been
so good.
Karen suggests an Indian tomorrow night after taking Claire back ..
it’s school half term so she won’t be going to work and stinking
everyone out .. but it’s ok for me to do that.
12.56 .. We arrive at home .. it’s still raining .. lovely ..
I try my 3G dongle on one of my old laptops .. and get the same result
as earlier ..
13.22 .. Lunch is served .. Claire throws her plate of food as it’s
handed to her .. welcome home dear.
Post lunch I call BT to see what is wrong with my BT 3G dongle .. it
appears nothing other than my 18 months free period has now ended, and
it’s converted itself to PAYG .. apparently it’ll cost me £15 for
3Gb data a month ( time expires after 30 days ) or £10 for 1Gb
data a month with same expiry date. Hmmm .. time to contemplate if BT
is best option. When I was getting it free I never exceeded 50% of my
1Gb allowance, rarely did I go over 10% .. but it’s a nice thing to
know you have a backup for all eventualities ..
16.06 .. We head for my mums ..
I tell mum I’ll be away to Brunei for 2 weeks in a month .. the
conversation that followed about clothes is typical mother .. grrrrrr
.. the only things she seems to say to me nowadays is to insult me
ignoring my gender change ..
17.15 .. Claire has had enough, so have I .. so we head for home, via
the Shell garage in Egham to top Violet up ..
17.38 .. We are home .. I’m handed the pizza menu and told to order
dinner.
18.03 .. I’m home with the food .. after the lunch time experience I
sit well away from Claire, as does Karen, who is going to pass Claire
her food as and when .. Claire astounds us by wanting to pick up the
slices “big girl” style as we call it, rather than opting for us to cut
it up for her so she can eat bits with a fork as she usually does ..
lets hope this change stays.
19.00 .. ish .. Claire heads for her bath .. I head for the PC to do
some 3G research ..
I do all I can to get my HTC TouchPro 2 “smartphone” to share it’s
Vodafone data with my laptops .. by Bluetooth and by USB .. I fail
dismally .. it just won’t play ball .. trying to get info from the
internet doesn’t help.
21.15 .. ish .. Karen heads up to get washed and watch TV up there ..
I continue my research on 3G, to be honest on the PAYG front there is
little to choose from apart from coverage area’s. From some of my
research at work recently into 3G for use there .. I know “Three”
provides the best speeds if you can get a connection in the first
place. Vodafone / BT ( BT uses Vodafones infrastructure ) .. has the
best overall coverage .. Orange runs a close second.
In the end it has to be down to cost and ease of use .. probably stay
with BT.
23.20 .. I finally climb into bed .. disturbing Karen, who grants me a
cuddle for a while ..
More to come ...
Day 2265. Sunday 20th February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
It’s a disturbed night .. with Claire wanting to go to the toilet at
least 3 times ( the times that I was also disturbed ) .. and while my
shoulder felt fine before going to bed, too long spent on that side was
uncomfortable ..
09.27 .. I’m woken by Karen getting up .. she gets me a cup of tea to
wake me up before getting Claire up .. she loves me, maybe ..
09.57 .. Up and at it ..
10.58 .. I head up to shower .. given the time I shouldn’t have done
the “grooming” I did pre shower .. ho hum ..
12.10 .. I’m back down stairs post shower .. Karen finishes the washing
up from her cake baking with Claire then takes her up to bath ..
While alone, I log into our online BT account to try and sort out
access to my 3G dongle account, while trying and failing to do that I
do manage to set up access to BT Fon .. well that might be useful in
the future .. we’ll see. Being signed up costs me a little of the
bandwidth at home, but also gives me unlimited access to BT “hotspots”
and other peoples BT Fon partitions on their home hums.
13.45 .. ish .. I start a series of calls trying to find out how I can
manage my BT 3G dongle account now that BT has converted it to a PAYG
account.
14.20 .. The woman comes back to me, all she can do is send me the
account number for my 3G dongle through the post .. should be here in 5
days.
14.22 .. We head off in Sparkle to take Claire back .. I fire up the
TomTom first to check the journey is going to go well .. no delays
indicated .. but we have 19 minutes in hand ..
14.35 .. We join the M25 .. the traffic is going well, if only it
wasn’t drizzling ..
14.59 .. We join the M1 .. we still have 19 minutes spare time, so
Karen backs off a little to cruise at 60 - 65 mph ..
15.40 .. We come up behind a transit with an old series 1 Escort on the
back from 1971 ( by reg number ) .. it’s a classic RS2000 .. shame it’s
not the serious RS1600 .. oh how I desired one of those in the early
80's.
15.49 .. We arrive at Northampton services .. the homes car is there
but the female minder is missing .. Hazel’s gone to the loo we guess,
and so it was. On her return Claire is transferred to the other car, we
stand around in the cold talking about how the weekend has been, till
the cold gets to me.
I quickly check my BT Fon account works through the services BT
hottspot, and Skype does through it .. it does .. yippee .. just
need to get the laptop to store the info so it always auto connects
when available .. I’ll do that at home later.
16.01 .. We are back on the road ..
16.08 .. The TomTom suddenly announces “the traffic delay on your route
is now 19 minutes, you are still on the fastest route” .. hmmmm.
17.05 .. We join the M25 .. TomTom is saying just 2 mins of delay due
to traffic .. we’ll see .. ETA 17.51 ..
17.29 .. Off the M25 at J13 .. ETA 17.48 ..
17.46 .. We are home ..
19.10 .. We are in the Indian restaurant ..
The Sunday special deal is getting more popular .. and there is a large
party there celebrating the 50th birthday ( belatedly ) of a neighbour
at the end of the road ..
21.40 .. We are home ..
22.58 .. I head for bed ..
23.29 .. I finally climb into bed.
More to come ...
Day 2266. Monday 21st February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
09.12 .. I’m finally in the office ..
12.20 .. I head off on my walk ..
12.36 .. I’m back .. 16 minutes to do a distance that was taking 20
mins when I first started ..
News studio talk back problem ..
17.48 .. I’m finally on the road ..
18.41 .. I’m home ..
Nanda calls ..
19.05 .. Dinner is served .. mango and chilli chicken breast with a
roast carrots and jacket potato, dessert is a chunk of chocolate cake
and ice cream.
More to come ...
Day 2267. Tuesday 22nd February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
06.15 .. The alarm .. yes 5 minutes later cause it’s half term ..
13.19 .. I head out for my walk .. as I’ve started to pick up speed I
decide to go to another landmark ..
13.39 .. I’m back in the office .. my 20 minute walk resumed ..
probably another 400 metres added.
Stumped by this talk back problem .. I need another connector .. which
we don’t have.
17.40 .. I finally leave work ..
18.02 .. My phone rings .. it’s Arqiva MCR .. regarding our fault to
the Falklands ..
18.15 .. Second phone call from Arqiva MCR .. I’ve gone about 5 miles
..
18.22 .. Third call from Arqiva .. they promise to call at 18.50 ..
when I should be home ..
18.43 .. I’m home .. and rush to set my laptop up to deal with Arqiva
..
18.48 .. Karen presents me with my dinner .. chicken, mushrooms and
pasta in tomato and chilli sauce ..
19.10 .. I call Arqiva to find out what’s what .. I reset a spare
viewing card for them ..
19.20 .. Dessert .. Chocolate cake and ice cream.
I go searching in my component store under the stairs to see if I have
a 56 way male Varicon .. well well well, I do .. thanks to the old
radio car days .. I actually have two !!. While I’m in my component
store / wine cellar .. I dig out the last of our French white from our
last trip, and get some more red out for the kitchen rack.
20.20 .. A chat with Nanda on Skype .. I do like chatting with her on
Skype .. though she is very tired looking tonight and says she feels
it.
23.10 .. I head for bed ..
00.02 .. I’m in bed ..
More to come ...
Day 2268. Wednesday 23rd February 2011.
Memory Joggers ...
I’m not setting well at the moment, I don’t know why ..
06.15 .. The alarm goes off ..
I snuggle up to Karen for awhile after she returns from a comfort break
..
06.40 .. Up and at it ..
07.35 .. I’m downstairs .. I need to dry my hair and get going ..
08.20 .. I’m late leaving for work .. DOH .. but luckily this morning
the traffic is very kind .. something to do with the weather maybe ..
it’s horribly “dank”.
09.02 .. I’m in the office ..
10.15 .. ish .. “Duty engineer” duties done .. I start wiring a cable I
need to be able to break into the intercom system and find out why the
News Studio can’t talk to anyone, though everyone else can talk to them
..
12.25 .. Lunch .. well it’s a bit different today .. a Cuscus pot, a
banana, the last of the dates I bought a couple of weeks ago and a
Clementine. Sadly it’s not nice outside, I could go walking with an
umbrella .. but I decide to give it a miss.
I give Chris ( my engineering colleague from about 3 ½ years ago
at the old place ) a call on Skype .. he’s home, I thought he was still
doing his own thing, but he’s got a day off from BBC World Service.
It’s a small world, I ask him about an old ITN colleague of mine
Andrew, he’s actually covering Andrew who is off from work with a
fractured leg.
I mention the job advert I’ve seen for the old place .. funny he’s not
going to apply either. We discuss why, reservations many I know have
said to me ..
Tom the trainee joins me for a while to learn the ins and outs of
wiring 56way Varicon connectors .. he’s chosen a good time .. I’ve just
started the second of 3 connectors .. this is difficult .. two PSN 50's
into one moulding with all the conductors parallelled up in the crimps
.. I show Tom the best way of doing it. After a while Tom disappears
..
15.45 .. ish .. Tom re appears .. just as I’m putting the last pair of
crimps into the shell .. time to prepare the other end for the last
shell. I let Tom pick the pair’s out of the bundle of 25 .. he soon
discovers this can be tricky !!
I get an e-mail from boss Jon .. confirming my trip to Brunei will now
start on the 21st March, not the 28th .. a trip to Chonburi could be a
possibility on the way home .. but it’s too close I am sure ..
17.30 .. Time to go .. but I put the last six crimps on the cable and
put the tools away before I go .. I’ll stick the crimps into the shell
tomorrow.
17.46 .. I leave the office .. the traffic is terrible again ..
18.53 .. I’m home .. Karen starts dishing up dinner with a moan about
me being late !!!
18.55 .. Dinner is served .. sausages, beans and a jacket potato ..
lovely .. dessert is half a mango .. lovely too.
20.23 .. I try to call Nanda on Skype .. her computer is on but nobody
answers .. maybe she has fallen asleep, it’ll take her a few days to
get over the Thailand time difference.
20.25 .. I go make the tea .. Karen has bought a couple of Thorntons
creme eggs to have with the tea .. very naughty, but mine is very nice.
21.32 .. I’m heading for bed ..
More to come ...